If you’ve been struggling with alcohol addiction, your goal may be to simply stop drinking. If I can only put down the bottle, then everything will be better, you think. Addiction, however, is more complex than that. And if you don’t address your alcoholism’s root causes, you may continue to struggle with dry drunk syndrome. And no, that’s not a joke. Being a dry drunk is a very real thing; and it could drive you to pick up the bottle again if you don’t get help. 

What is a Dry Drunk?

Dry drunk” or “dry drunk syndrome” first started as a slang term in Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), referring to specific attributes and behaviors associated with alcoholism that continue in recovery, shares Healthline.com. Dry drunkenness may happen when you’ve stopped drinking, but the issues that drove you to want to quit still persist. In other words, you’re still living the lifestyle of an alcoholic, but you don’t drink.

According to the Indian Journal of Psychological Medicine, dry drunk syndrome can be experienced by anyone with an alcohol addiction and is simply a part of the recovery process. It can happen for a few months to a few years and may even appear after long periods of abstinence. As an alcoholic dry drunk, you essentially haven’t yet learned the ways of coping and adjusting to life without alcohol

But why does dry drunk syndrome actually occur if you’ve quit drinking? The answer lies in the underlying source of an addiction. There’s often a deeper struggle going on. For many, the root cause of addiction is past trauma that still affects them today. Addiction, in fact, can be one of the long-term effects of childhood trauma, for example. Abstaining from alcohol only addresses the surface of your addiction, leaving your root causes—such as past trauma—untreated. And when that happens, you end up struggling with the negative attitudes, feelings, and perspectives associated with dry drunkenness

Dry Drunk Behavior and Symptoms

Dry drunk syndrome often happens in the early stages of your recovery, especially if you’re trying to quit drinking without professional support. According to VerywellMind.com, dry drunkenness is part of post-acute withdrawal syndrome (PAWS). PAWS, shares The Journal for Nurse Practitioners, is a group of psychological and mood-related symptoms that persist for months or years after acute withdrawal from a substance. Unfortunately, PAWS can be a major contributor to alcohol relapse

If you drank heavily for extended periods of time, your PAWS symptoms may be more severe and last longer. Common PAWS symptoms may include:

  • Emotional outbursts or lack of emotions
  • Anxiety
  • Poor stress management
  • Low energy
  • Sleep troubles
  • Memory issues
  • Difficulty with thinking clearly or making decisions
  • Delayed reflexes and balance challenges
  • Dizziness
  • Accident-prone tendencies

SOURCE: UW School of Medicine and Public Health

But what does alcoholic dry drunk syndrome look and feel like? Symptoms vary and may develop over time. Typical dry drunk behavior and symptoms consist of: 

  • A self-centered or superior attitude: Also called “terminal uniqueness” in Twelve Step facilitation therapy, this view takes the stance that rules don’t apply to you. You may see yourself as different, the victim, or better than others. 
  • Poor impulse control: You often seek instant gratification or make choices without thinking about the ramifications. You may get bored or inpatient with your recovery pursuits. 
  • Negativity or anger associated with your recovery: You get bitter or resentful about your recovery, and that anger may extend toward other areas of your life. You may even resent your sobriety, wishing you could drink again. 
  • Romanticizing your drinking: Also called euphoric recall, you may get nostalgic or look back with fondness on your alcohol addiction, forgetting all of the challenges associated with it.
  • Cross addiction: You start abusing drugs, other substances, or behaviors (food, sex, or social media, for example), leading to transfer addiction

How to Cope and Find Healing

Do the above dry drunk behaviors and symptoms seem familiar? If so, it’s likely that the struggles that drove you to drink in the first place remain unresolved. At the same time, recovery is a process, and it takes time to adjust to a life without addiction. Long-term sobriety doesn’t happen overnight. As you wrestle with the reality of recovery, here are some ways you can navigate dry drunkenness and cope in a healthier way:

Overcoming alcohol addiction is also something you shouldn’t do alone. You really need to partner alongside a professional addiction treatment center to heal fully and safely from alcoholism. 

At Sana at Stowe in Stowe, Vermont, our comprehensive alcohol addiction treatment program addresses your addiction at its source. We help you find healing from any underlying trauma and other challenges that caused your alcohol abuse in the first place. As a result, you’re better equipped to achieve lasting recovery and overcome dry drunk syndrome in the process. To learn more, call us today